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Parties

General Roules & Hygiene


Information for the visit as a couple:


We congratulate you on your decision to visit our erotic club. A visit to a swingers club does not mean cheating, the opposite is the case. Such a visit can freshen up your sex life and become an erotic adventure that gets you even closer together. You share an exciting experience with one another and grow as a couple.

It is very important that you try to talk about your upcoming visit, speak your limits, taboos and also jealousy prior to the event. If you decide to go for sexual contacts with others, make yourself aware that you act together as a couple and the others are your "living Toys". It is not about romance and feelings - it's about lust, sex and variety, be it a threesome, bi experiences or role playing with the right equipment.

Do not try to persuade the partner to something he really does not agree on. That could ruin not only your visit to the swingers club, but can also have serious consequences for the relationship.

Pick Your parties according to your preferences and personal boundaries: The hedonistic parties (Fri, Sat, Wed) are about partying, dancing, flirting, seeing & Being seen. At these parties you don't have to be sexually active, you can simply watch, there are no obligations, except the erotic dress code. At most weekend parties there is an area just for couples and their personal playmate (except Saturday Night Fuck & Pornotopia). Use the "Beautifying" at home, turn up the music, enjoy getting ready for your special night and leave your worries behind slipping into a different role.

At the swingerparties (Tue, Thu, Sun) we only want to allow sexually active players. At this party only people should come who intend to become sexually active, not necessarily with others, but at least with one another. Active players of any gender have been telling us repeatedly that they have difficulties to let go, if people attend that are only watching.

Special: Fetish / BDSM (Wednesdays): These parties are designed as playing parties and only suitable for playful couples, not necessarily with others, but however with one another. It just bothers the erotic atmosphere when couples spend hours just watching and perhaps so even doing trivial things. The Insomnia is a sex - laboratory - no language lab! There is always a competent Domina as your local contact, whether to answer questions, to show practices or to assist in the implementation of your delicate fantasies.

There are always condoms available at the bar. Likewise, rubber gloves and lube. Below the black tables are bins, where used condoms, handkerchiefs, etc. can be disposed and should. There are towels, shower gel, disinfection and changing facilities.

You are a couple, would like to go to a swingers club, but don’t have the guts to go there alone?
That’s why we originated the “swinger-patrons”
You can visit the Insomnia together with a well experienced swinger-couple and will get explained all the customs and manners of Insomnia.
They will have an open ear for all your questions during the night.
If you are interested, write an email to DiePaten@insomnia-berlin.de

What happens in Insomnia, remains there.


Information for the visit as a single man:


At the hedonistic parties on Friday and Saturday, we place value on dancing, flirting, seeing and being seen. Visit it only if you really fancy dressing up kinky, dancing and flirting. At the bar, on the dance floor, the pool - there are many ways to flirt and get in contact. Who wants to swing, should openly and friendly approach others, without being obtrusive.

If you prefer getting right to it, then join the swingerparties (Tues, Thurs & Sun) or a fetish / BDSM Wednesday. However, consider this: paying admission is no guarantee that you get to fuck or play! You pay for participating in a sex / fetish party, no sexual service! Who wants to fuck must be friendly (and clean, fresh & fragrant)! Who wants to join BDSM games, must find the right tone! A "no" is a "No"!

Special Fetish / BDSM Wednesday: Retain enough distance from the scene if you are watching, don't standing in the swivel range of the whip! Speak softly, approach couuples with respect and ask the dominant part. Unsolicited Contacting the sub leads to no success in most cases. If you do not understand something you are seeing, keep your astonishment to yourself at first, ask the Domina present if it is appropriate to join the situation.
These parties are designed as game parties, if you will be invited to participate in an action, do not be shy and let yourself go! The Insomnia is a sex - laboratory - no language lab! There is always a competent Domina as your local contact, whether to answer questions, to show practices or to assist in the implementation of your delicate fantasies.

If you should come across an erotic scene, stay in a discreet distance. No loud conversations about trivialities such as the last football game. Try to enjoy the scene from a far and assess if you are invited to join. Have they noticed your presence? Were you rather ignored or did they even roll their eyes annoyed? Did you get a timid smile or an inviting look? Ask yourself: Am I invited to join or just watch?

If it excites you, you can also lay hands onto yourself - but don't fumble right in front of other players' faces! Some (not all!) couples enjoy when you watch them playing with yourself, some also want to see if you are ready and equipped to be the third or fourth one in their play, if your erection is convincing.

Be washed and fragrant! Wash your hands in between, especially if you are palying with yourself or others! Disinfection can be found on the toilets.

Use condoms and rubber gloves if you want to fumble someone. The lubricant can be found at the bar. Below the black tables are bin, where used condoms, handkerchiefs, etc. can be disposed and should. There are towels, gel, disinfection and changing facilities.

What happens in Insomnia, remains there.


Information for the visit as a single woman:


Use our clean, safe sexual escapades infrastructure for your erotic adventures! You can arrange meetings and have flirty fun without giving an immediate insight into your life.

Choose your party according to your personal limits: For the hedonistic parties (Fri, Sat, Wed) it comes to partying, dancing, flirting, See & be Seen and whet your appetite. At these parties you don't have to become sexually active, you can simply watch, there are no obligations. There are playgrounds for couples only and some that are open to all.

The swingerparties we only permit sexually active participants (Tue, Thu, Sun)
At this party only people should come, planning to be sexually active.

Special fetish / BDSM Wednesday: These parties are designed as playing parties and only suitable for playful couples, not necessarily with others, but however with one another. It just bothers the erotic atmosphere when guests spend hours just watching and perhaps so even doing trivial things. The Insomnia is a sex - laboratory - no language lab! There is always a competent Domina as your local contact, whether to answer questions, to show practices or to assist in the implementation of your delicate fantasies.

There are always condoms available at the bar. Likewise, rubber gloves and lube. Below the black tables are bins, where used condoms, handkerchiefs, etc. can be disposed and should. There are towels, shower gel, disinfection and changing facilities.

You are a single lady, would like to go to a swingers club, but don’t have the guts to go there alone?
That’s why we originated the “swinger-patrons”
You can visit the Insomnia together with a well experienced swinger-couple and will get explained all the customs and manners of Insomnia.
They will have an open ear for all your questions during the night.
If you are interested, write an email to DiePaten@insomnia-berlin.de

What happens in Insomnia, remains there.


Advice for our queer community:


You are always welcome and we are very happy if you are enrichening our club!
There are events that are particularly well suited, such as on Saturdays, the Secrets party, the Friday events, our Fetish & BDSM Wednesday parties and of course specials such as New Year, Christmas, Venus, CSD, anniversary.

Pure swinger events like Sunday and Tuesday's more suitable for bi - contacts ... our guests are very curious and open to it.

Special fetish / BDSM Wednesday: There are many straight - couples / men who can imagine scenarios with bisexuals, TV / TS etc.. They also enjoy just watching you, if you want to play with yourselves. There is always a competent Domina as your local contact, whether to answer questions, to show practices or to assist in the implementation of your delicate fantasies.

There are always condoms available at the bar. Likewise, rubber gloves and lube. Below the black tables are bins, where used condoms, handkerchiefs, etc. can be disposed and should. There are towels, shower gel, disinfection and changing facilities.

What happens in Insomnia, remains there.

FAQ

Yes, you can change clothes and no, we don't have lockers. You can put on your special outfit dircretely and comfortable and give all your bags and clothes to the friendly lady at the cloakroom. This is usually for free, only at special events you pay 1 Euro.
Yes.....and more! We offer a selection of sex toys. Just ask at the bar!
No. Our staff also speaks english, partially spanish and russian.
Yes. We have a big shower area. Especially our jacuzzi will provide you with the special wellness factor. Towels are for free.
Towels are freely available at our wet area. You can get flip-flops for a small amount at our cloakroom, but in the club area we only recommend wearing them on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Sundays.
On Fridays and Saturdays our gallery is only open for couples (Exceptions: Saturday Night Fuck and Secrets)
For the weekend: A registration is nice, but in doubt dispensable. A reservation is recommended for a VIP Booking, special events such as Pentecost, Anniversary or New Year's Eve.
Some parties during the week require registration, e.g. the cuddly party, romping etc. that can be read in the party text
No! We offer the participation at a sex party. We don't offer sexual services.
No, but hotels and apartments are available here
By car:
Highway A100 Exit Tempelhofer Damm / Tempelhof.

By public transport:

U Bahn Alt Tempelhof (right in front of our door)
S Bahn Tempelhof (ca. 300m)
Bus 140, 184, 246, M46, N6, N84
There are enough parking spots surrounding the club area. Always expect a little walk by foot and in winter times you are better off changing your clothes at the club.
Yes, we gladly call a taxi for you.
The admission fee varies with each party. You will find every specific price in our party calendar.
No, because of a lot of steps in the entrance and toilet area.
But of course you are welcome to visit us and we try to help where we can.
Only at Thursdays and at the Saturday Night Fuck we offer food. There are a lot of restaurants and fast-food available in the club area up until 11pm.

Dresscode

Predominantly on tuesdays, thursdays and sundays there are one or many o the following terms to be found in the dress code: Sexy underwear, black dessous, lingerie, fetish, no street clothes

On those days another more sexual party-concept is the main focus,
hence the dress code adapts to this motto and wants to deliver a more sexually explicit atmosphere amongst the participants, e.g. black, tight underwear, black shorts, muscle-shirts, translucent shirts, fetish, vinyl, latex, leather, lingerie, corsets, stockings, obscene negligees, babydolls, etc.

Look appetizing! - You want to be selected, right?
Fetish-outfits, BDSM-outfits, Uniforms, corsets, Dominatrix & naked slave, Master & naked Slave
Fetish-Outfits (Latex, Lacquer, Leather), BDSM-Outfits, naked slaves and servants with their elegant masters

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